I’d say NixOS is as minimal as arch

tldr and atuin have been my main way of remembering complex but frequent flag combinations

Actual is libre and gratis

You should still be able to access everything through tailscale once you switch everything over to use local IP addresses.

Is that unique to Joplin?

I was using proton for a while, but they are pretty expensive if you want features like catchall and more aliases, on top of restricting clients.

Migadu offers complete email freedom for $20 ($10 for students) a year, unlimited accounts, aliases, identities, etc. I’ve been very happy with them.