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Cake day: June 21st, 2023
    1. I like looking at women.

    2. Having a female character and trying out a variety of cool outfits, dresses and make-up is fun. Especially as most games allow you to do a lot of customisation for female characters. Barbie in Night City, Barbie in Skyrim, Barbie in the post-Apocalypse. I can happily spend far too much time getting their outfit and make-up just right, before I even get down to kicking ass.

    3. Female bad-asses are far more interesting than the boring male action hero stereotype.

    4. Games are escapist fun. I’m a man. I’m tall, I do weight lifting. Why would I play as a man who looks like me, when I can play as a woman, something I would otherwise not get to experience?

  • Non-profit social media isn’t exactly healthy either.

    I know beehaw is a relative safe haven, but venture to other instances in the fediverse and you’ll find cesspits of toxicity that are as bad as it gets.

    And given what my experiences with toxic positivity, cancelling and culture wars in minority run communities which should know better, I doubt beehaw doesn’t have its fair share of toxicity too. Even if you manage to keep out the worst bigots, people who have been hurt or bullied, quite often end up hurting or bullying others.

    L’enfer c’est les autres.